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fotgiveness for ZINA
« on: March 16, 2009, 01:09:07 PM »
Assalamoalikum,

Q1: if a person forcefully committed zina and repents. Is Allah forgive his/her?

Q2: If a person forcefully married and is not happy with his spouse and wants to marry another girl which he truly and honestly likes and consider her and introduce her as his wife in front of people. He also committed physical relations with that girl and he or she both repents what is islam says all about it.

Q3: Both are ashamed on their acts or sins and seek forivness and repents and want to nikkah but parents are not agreed? What they should do?

Q4: The girl can not tell her parents about her physical relationships but wants a forgiveness from Allah and Allah's blessing. Should the girl married the same man?
How can she get out of this problem and will Allah forgive her?

Please please reply
JazakAllah

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Re: fotgiveness for ZINAando sa
« Reply #1 on: March 17, 2009, 07:11:50 AM »
assalam alaikum!
zina IS haram and gunah e kabira in islam, r jab insan zina kerta hai to us ka eman uper utha liya jata hai...any ways!Allah pak her gunnah muaf ferma detay hain.Alllah pak Ghafoor o Rahim hain.Allah pak apnay bando say bht mohbt kertay hain...wo larky r aap b sachay dil say Allah pak say muafi mangain r dubara kisi b aisay kaam ko sachay dil say na kernay ka azm uthain...rahe baat shadi ki to i can imagine aap ka apny wife k saath kasa taluk hoga...aap ko dono k darmayan barabary wala suluk kerna hoga.awwal to ap say aapki wife k baray main b puch hoge.if u r not behaving well with him aap ko azaab ho ga is cheez ka.HUZUR SAW apny her wife say mohbt kertay thay.r her bv ko yehi lagta tha k mujsay zyada mohabt kertay hain...insaf r barabary k saath taluk b zarury hai.if u wana mary the 2nd girl u must..coz u used that girl..she is not able to marry some where else.u r the defaulter n she is as well.
  ONE THING I WANNA MENTION:
                            AIK SHADI SHUDA MARD KO ZYAADA GUNNAH HAI ZINA KA BANASBIT AIK GHAIR SHAADI SHUDAA K...
ALLAH PAK say foran apnay kiye ki muafi mangain....r apas mai kisi b kisam k ap dono k talukaat chahay wo mil ker hain ya fon per hain sab zina hai...fon per baat kerna kano ka zina.dekhna ankho ka zina.baat kerna zubaan ka zina...dusray zina ka irtakab to aap log ker he chukay hain....sachay dil say muafi managain...r sab cheezo say bachain...halal kam sir anjaam dain
assalam alaikum


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Re: fotgiveness for ZINA
« Reply #2 on: March 17, 2009, 07:12:26 PM »
Assalamoalikum,

Aaap ki baat smaj main aati hai Allah Pak ghuffor o raheem hai
Allah pak dono ko maaf ker de

Dono he shirminda hain or seb se zayda nuksaan tou us larki ka hai woh kisi se yeh baat nehe ker sekti ... woh kin halaat se guzri hai or yeh seb kerte ussay bhe yakeenana acha nahe laga ho ga ... ek muslaman ko ache amal krta ho , namaz parhta ho yeh seb zaib nahe deta ... laikn gunah tou insaan se ho he jaatay hain

rahe baat uss banday kee tou uss kay usski biwi se ache tallukaat nahe hain woh alehdgai ikthiyar kerna chahta hai ... because he is not mentally, emotionally set up with that woman because the marriage is  forced.

How can he convince his parents for the divorce although islam allowed you the least if you are not happy or justice then you have separated in good manners.

May Allah help them

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Re: fotgiveness for ZINA
« Reply #3 on: March 19, 2009, 11:43:18 AM »
Salaam,


Q1: if a person forcefully committed zina and repents. Is Allah forgive his/her?
Allah forgives sins for whome so ever He wants so we should have hope from Him.
Q2: If a person forcefully married and is not happy with his spouse and wants to marry another girl which he truly and honestly likes and consider her and introduce her as his wife in front of people. He also committed physical relations with that girl and he or she both repents what is islam says all about it.

he must marry her . befor marring he is not allowed to introduce her as his wife or stable relations with her


Q3: Both are ashamed on their acts or sins and seek forivness and repents and want to nikkah but parents are not agreed? What they should do?

they should do nikah or take separation

Q4: The girl can not tell her parents about her physical relationships but wants a forgiveness from Allah and Allah's blessing. Should the girl married the same man?
How can she get out of this problem and will Allah forgive her?
she should not do this act again
 and go straight.Allah forgive her inn sha Allah.



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Re: fotgiveness for ZINA
« Reply #4 on: March 20, 2009, 05:41:41 PM »
Asslamoalikum,

Jazakallah for all the answers
could please explain if the girl marries an other man (as her parents force her to marry an other man )should he tell her all about her past or past relationships as you know she committed sin. Or she should remain quite in front of the man she is going to marry? May be after hearing the truth no other man would prefer to merry her?

 

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Re: fotgiveness for ZINA
« Reply #5 on: March 21, 2009, 07:37:30 AM »
Salam,
No. She must be quite.

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Re: fotgiveness for ZINA
« Reply #6 on: March 24, 2009, 10:44:39 AM »
Salam,

with reference to your answer dont you think it is a dishonesty? but it is the fact that if she cant quite it would be difficult for her.

What is islam says about it?

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Re: fotgiveness for ZINA
« Reply #7 on: March 24, 2009, 11:21:23 AM »
Salam,

It is narrated by Umar (RA) as a person came to UMAR (RA) and asked that his daughter had performed zina in ignorance time and then she fell into redemption and tried to kill herself. She couldnt succeed in killing herself and was cured. Then she embraced Islam and is following Sunnah completely. Now, this is the time of her marriage so should we tell her in-laws about her old situation. Umar (RA) replied that if you would let the in-laws know about her old situation then I would definitely go for punishment for you.
(Hayat us Sahaba by Maulana Yousuf Kandhalwi. Part III)

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